Was it really was a suicide.

Source: Crazy Days and Nights

The amazing social media music battle last night revived the question about whether the later in the alphabet one namer killed her ex-boyfriend or if it really was a suicide.

The family of the ex-boyfriend thinks the former.

Monica

Jarvis Weems

Oh My! Family Of Monica’s Deceased Ex NEVER Believed Her Suicide Story!

Monica says her then 24 year old boyfriend called her distraught and exhausted with life and asked her to meet him at the cemetery where his brother was buried. Then he locked himself in the car and shot himself in the head… Jarvis Weems’ Mother had a totally different opinion about Monica’s side of the story:

“I don’t believe my son killed himself. I feel Monica knows a lot more than she’s admitting. The bullet went in on the right side of his head, but he was left-handed. Why would he use the wrong hand to shoot himself? The cops just took her word for what happened. Now I wish my son had never met her.” -Tyra Weems, mother of Jarvis Weems – Source

Monica Back in Spotlight After Tragedy

Her first real love was Corey Miller, a rapper whose stage name was C-Murder, a name which would resonate with irony when he was arrested for the murder of a 16-year-old boy. Corey is in jail in Louisiana, but Monica says she is certain he’s innocent. “That’s just not the person I know, and I know for a fact that he’s innocent,” she said.

Monica’s choice in men would prove even more lethal the next time. She would meet and fall for Jarvis Weems, a 25-year-old drug dealer.

Monica said Weems’ life was difficult. “He was brought up, you know, in an area where people do whatever they have to, to survive,” she said. Survival in that world, Monica said, drove Weems to make choices that were illegal.

“He kept me very sheltered from a lot of stuff that was going on, even though, I would never pretend that I was not aware. Don’t get me wrong. I would never pretend that I was not aware,” she said.

But then, Weems would bring Monica face to face with unspeakable horror. It was July 18, 2000. Weems called Monica from the phone in his car. He told her he was on his way to the cemetery where his brother was buried and that he wanted to “be with him.”

“He was very somber. And that’s when I knew that his mind was made up,” Monica said.

Weems had decided to take his own life. Monica arrived at the cemetery and stood pleading, but he had locked his car doors. Monica saw that he had a gun in his car.

She recalled, “He said a lot of things, which I feel like are definitely only for me. Most important thing that he said was that the loved me, and that nobody ever tried the way I tried.”

After more than an hour of talking, Jarvis abruptly rolled up the car window, turned away from Monica, reached down and in one swift move, put the gun to his head, and pulled the trigger.

Monica ran to the car with her own gun, blew out the window of car, unlocked the door. She was determined to save him.

“I continued talking to him. I continued telling him that I loved him, God loved him, and it was gonna be OK. When I asked him, did it hurt, you know, he tried to say something back. But, I touched him. And I could still feel life in him. And that allowed me not to give up,” she said.

It took 20 minutes for the paramedics to arrive.

Monica says she knows the reason why Weems committed suicide, but says she won’t reveal it. She said, “I’ll never tell anybody why. Because he didn’t tell it. He didn’t leave a note. He didn’t call home. … He told me. And it’ll stay with me, until we see each other again.” – Source