The unmarried one needs to break away and speak out.

While I 100% agree the leaders of the huge huge reality family need to be called out for their actions towards underage youth in their home and community, I'm not sure the con artist in-law who is also wanted for questioning in multiple countries for what would be felonies if charged, is the person you want leading that charge. He will get crushed under the weight of his past deeds as soon as he opens his mouth. The unmarried one needs to break away and speak out. Her voice is a trusted one.

She is still seeing the older guy

My favorite in this religious reality family tells me that the ex who deserves to go to jail for a long time hasn't been her boyfriend in forever and she is still seeing the older guy who is still technically married and to her knowledge doesn't deserve to go to jail forever.